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I was a student-athlete when I was in high school and college. My teammates and I were extremely competitive and we took pride in what we did. I played my guts out every time out and I didn’t always win. I lived by the old cliché of play hard, do your best, and no matter what the results win or lose, know you did all you could that day. Now granted in my case I was out on a golf course, but still! We competed! And at the end of every match we shook hands like true competitors do and acknowledged the other’s play. I didn’t like all the guys I played against, but I shook their hands nonetheless. I guess times are changing.
In Warsaw, Virginia at Rappahannock High School, one of the five schools in the Northern Neck District, principal Jack Cooley decided that the end of game handshakes need to come to an end. The ban has been in place since the beginning of this season for his district.
The Richmond Times-Dispatch has quoted Cooley:
"We've never had fights," Cooley said, "but it's a pretty touchy situation after a game when you have to have the principals go out on the field to make sure everyone is behaving properly."
The ban "has really cut the tension," he said. "You don't have 35 guys plus the cheerleaders out there wondering what is going to happen. All it would take would be that one person not to shake hands or push somebody and who knows who would jump in [to fight], and what do you do? You can't stop it."
Is he serious? Does he not watch every pro sport out there? Well…apart from Detroit Pistons basketball of course. After almost every NFL game you will see opposing players shaking hands, hugging, and even kneeling down together in prayer. I’m willing to bet that the majority of these kids watch NFL games and see this after game camaraderie. To think that they couldn't emulate a lot of the players they look up to is beyond me.
If they were really worried about fights, why couldn’t the principals go to their head coach and just make it known that any after game altercation would not be tolerated. I would imagine if the coach would put game suspensions on his players if anything were to happen, the likelihood of trouble at the end of games would be next to nothing. Instead, they are teaching those kids that there is no faith they can practice good sportsmanship without adult supervision. It’s sad, isn’t it?
Thanks go to Wulf for pointing out this story to me.
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Incidentally, a student is subject to all school rules while at any school event, so fighting would also be followed up with a 10 day suspension, which would prevent the students from participating in sports anyway. A coach's suspension after that would be pretty tough punishment - enough to prevent these fights that haven't happened but could.
This is how we teach sportsmanship now? Jack Cooley is trying to do the right thing, but he is not succeeding.
Posted by: wulf at November 8, 2005 6:05 PM
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